8 Signs You May Have Trouble Being Single

At times as single a single woman, you'll find yourself waiting for companionship or a dating partner. All of your girlfriends seem to be in successful relationships while you find yourself recycling phone numbers in your contact list. Take a look and see if your stuck in the past and may have trouble being single...

1. There's an ex you've been holding on to for 3-4 years. You're not completely attracted to, you know he did you a tad bit dirty but, for some temporary testosterone, you'll hit an occasional movie and let him make a move or two on the low.
2. Dating the same lame guy for several weeks, you notice he has traits you can't quite ignore or get over. After dropping him, you find yourself reuniting and putting up with nose picking/boring conversation/ too loud gangster rap music in lieu of cuffing season
3. You're contact listing has the phone number from the guy you met at the Publix/Pathmark last summer that never called... He might remember how great your meatloaf recipe was
4. You find yourself adding an ex or former date on social networks (instagram, facebook, twitter) to let them see what they may be missing or "He's still single, I may have a chance"
5. The Black Swan bar on Bedford was his as much as YOUR favorite spot on date night... There's nothing wrong with making an appearance... you just make sure your outfit is right in case he or or one of his friends show up
6. You give the not-so-tall-or-cute guy at the club your number hoping your standards may be too high, "He might be different than the others"
7. At least 5 men in your neighborhood/at work/at church have your number in the spirit of keeping your options open
8. You have wandering eyes. After getting off the train from work, you're constantly looking around and overly aware. You find yourself locking eyes mostly with men and at least 4 per block radius.

One thing I've learned from many different men...

They can literally smell an insecure, lonely, desperate woman.

The good ones gravitate to women who are focused and limitedly aware of the guys around them. Walk with your head high, spend more time thinking about how to make work a little easier tomorrow or how many accounts you can close instead of how slim the pickings of handsome men there are near your job.

Most importantly, being alone is a great time to develop yourself and learn some things you weren't aware of.

What are some extra signs you know of that display trouble being single?

And We're Off!! To the Book Museum

Zac wearing Gap Newsboy cap, H&M polo, Gap Bike Tie, Zara Pant, H&M High Top

Zac's two favorite things I MUST PACK... Crackers and Thomas

Brooklyn Museum 

For the past 2 months, Zac has been asking to visit the "Moozeeahhm"...

His Grandpa took him on an awesome trip to the historical Brooklyn Museum a few months back and he can't seem to get it out his noggin. On Mom.Me-Sun days, I ask him what it is he'd like to do and of course, the "Moozeeahhm" pops up as an option. So, we've visited DOZENS of self-made museums thus far....

The "Clothes" Museum...

The "Bank" Museum

and my favorite...

The "Grocery" Museum.

Most recently on our day-cations, we visited the "Book Museum" otherwise known as the

 Brooklyn Public Library

His excitement and enthusiasm made me the happiest person in the world!

We've gone to many libraries before but this one seemed to make a lasting impression. Everyone was so friendly and the massive front entrance left seating for us to eat our snacks, run around,  and take in the sun. We took a walk over to the Brooklyn Museum and walked around (or as Zac calls it- an adventure) the outside of the museum.
Most Brooklynites know, the Museum hosts Target First Saturdays... free events every first Saturday from 5pm-11pm showcasing artwork, film, and live music. On those days (particularly the first Saturday of the month) where there's absolutely nothing to do and I wanna dress up (or down) to get out of the house, I head to first saturdays. Its a great way to meet people and add to cultural insight.

H&M Insider: What to Expect During an H&M Interview

Gorgeous window by H&M Columbus Circle Visual Team

Having worked for H&M for several weeks,

there were many things I've learned about the company...

Their points of view...

Perspectives on leadership...

and the many opportunities provided.

I started my training at the Columbus Circle Location 

(which in my opinion is the best store to shop!!)...

FLASHBACK!

About two weeks after my group interview, I had my final interview with the hiring manager and a store manager of another location. They had me walk one of the stores and share what it was that I noticed that needed to be updated...

That moment was used to determine my ideologies and priorities as a store leader.

At the end of that small project, I learned that the store manager I spent that precious hour with was my potential manager, and I had gotten the job as well as my job offer in that day!

FAST-FORWARD!!

H&M prides itself in leadership and advancement. Anyway that you can execute that.

LET THEM KNOW!

I was able to train and learn what H&M looks for in the hiring process. Whether you're going for a Sales Advisor, Visual Merchandiser, Department Manager, or Store Manager; to ensure your experience is successful, display in as many ways as you possibly can your form of leadership.

MY personal questions I'd ask during interviews are:

"At your previous job, how did you take the lead in a difficult situation?"

"Explain a moment where your co-worker challenged your direction"

"Tell me about a time when you were able to motivate an unhappy co-worker" 

 Lastly, the biggest piece of information I could share!

Make sure you pay close attention during the online questionnaire.

It's not just something to pass by...

THAT questionnaire determines whether or not you'll get that call back and why.

Make sure all of your answers are as independent and solution oriented as possible.

Although, the truth reveals itself in the survey.

This post is intended to inform interested applicants and not to infringe on the policy and procedures of H&M.

My hiring papers!

Your future H&M Handbook

How I dressed for work: First two Jackets H&M, Right:Brooklyn Industries jacket, Zara Pant, Gap Shoe

Lunch Break!

H&M gave us employees free shirts launching the new website

I cut the sleeves for an edgy look!

Check Your Arm Swag!!

Check Your Arm Swag!

After waiting TWO HOURS for my N.O.T. (Never On Time) designer bud, I walked the historically imprinted streets of Dumbo for my favorite goodie. I stopped affront the DOPEST window of garments and accessories to find JUST what I'd been waiting for… 

A perfectly displayed chest of ARM SWAG.

"ARM SWAG?" you ask is the coolest collection of watches, bracelets, and beaded wristlet meant to beautify your Arm. Over the past few years, I've managed to collect a series of colorful friendship bracelets, and unique wrist paraphernalia that never ceases to catch the eye of fashionista's and artists alike. Check your favorite celebs like Gwen Stefanie; Taylor Swift, and Nichole Richie are known to rock some of the prettiest of them all.

Here are a few of my favorite bloggers, stylists, and looks with the best Arm Swag...

Brilliant Leather Watches I found In Dumbo

Friendship bracelets from Dumbo

Aimee Song's Arm Swag

Folake Kuye